For weeks, I was kicking myself for overanalyzing, second-guessing

You may have seen my post about a fox that visited my home, presumably looking for food. The story didn’t have a happy ending:

I didn’t leave out any food, and the neighborhood scuttlebutt was that the fox had been run over.

But a few nights ago, I saw a familiar shadow creeping across the driveway on my door camera.

It was back.

For weeks, I was kicking myself for overanalyzing, second-guessing and not doing something to help.  

And I wasn’t going to make the same decision.

I left out some pet food and a bowl of water, and he came back.  I leave a little out every night just in case he’s hungry, and now he visits from time to time.

It reminded me of a poem in Portia Nelson’s “Autobiography in Five Short Chapters:”

The character in the poem realizes they’ve made a habit of falling in a hole, but then they learn and take a different route. Because the hole isn’t going anywhere — but they can.  

It’s in part about denial of the mistakes we sometimes repeat, the freedom of realizing the pattern, and then making a different decision.  

I’ve made this mistake more times than I’d like to admit.  It was refreshing to finally learn the lesson, take action and be helpful.

Learn from these mistakes.  If you are curious about martial arts or thinking about training…stop thinking and take action.  Come in!

Sensei Dave

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